Happy Hoppers Rabbit Forum
Would you like to react to this message? Create an account in a few clicks or log in to continue.

splitting and rejigging pairs :/

+3
Amelia66
c.bolduan
cats444444
7 posters

Go down

splitting and rejigging pairs :/ Empty splitting and rejigging pairs :/

Post by cats444444 Sat Mar 22, 2014 5:56 pm

Hi everyone after advice on  bonding, im in a situation ill go on to explain where by im sort of left with no option tthan to split two existing bonded bunny pair to make two new ones.....ok so I currently have two bonded pairs living apart indoors, they are all male to female bonds.  Anyway,  the plan was always once the weather grows mild one pair would live outside permanently in a big hutch and run combo and one pair indoors with access to a run in the day when its nicer. Having 4 buns indoors living seperate with adequate space is difficult and was never a permanent solution.  Anyway I have ended up with oakey, the female out of the lounge pair, now has health issues that mean she cant be an outside bun permanantly.......out of the kitchen pair, istvan, the male bun now has health issues that mean he cant go outside permanantly.  At this point im going arrrggghhhh!!!!. So that one out of each pair unable to live outside.
To complicate things even further the male, ollie, out of the lounge pair could really benefit from constant grass access due to bad back teeth (really bad) and bumblebee the female from the kitchen pair is only truly happy when outside, last summer she was binkying in her run and loving life she doesnt suit being a kitchen bun and never binkys. ... so my only option though I feel awful is to swap the pairs and pair one kitchen bun with one lounge bun then as originally planned one pair can live outside and one inside. I have lots two drop pin type pens so I can cobble two temporary pens in two different places for each new pair to bond,  im apprehensive to start by splitting up pairs so they are alone as they have been in pairs but then im sure just chucking them together in their prospective pairs isnt the best either so any tips and pointers would be brill. I should probably also mention that at no point can  they be a foursome as the two female buns have long continued grudges and would kill each other on sight. Tia guys xx

cats444444
Junior Hopper
Junior Hopper

Gender : Female
Number of posts : 52
Age : 39
Registration date : 2013-11-05

Back to top Go down

splitting and rejigging pairs :/ Empty Re: splitting and rejigging pairs :/

Post by c.bolduan Sat Mar 22, 2014 6:08 pm

Wow, I have got nu suggestion on top of my head, but will certainly watch the space.
However I admire you for your recognition of their needs and send hugs, not sure how helpful these might be!?!?!

c.bolduan
Established Hopper
Established Hopper

Gender : Female
Number of posts : 3124
Age : 58
Location : Gloucestershire
Registration date : 2013-07-23

Back to top Go down

splitting and rejigging pairs :/ Empty Re: splitting and rejigging pairs :/

Post by cats444444 Sat Mar 22, 2014 6:12 pm

Thanks c.bolduan, I cant tell you how much that means actually, because although I know its the right thing and our only choice I feel so awful splitting bonded bunnies. Thankyou xx

cats444444
Junior Hopper
Junior Hopper

Gender : Female
Number of posts : 52
Age : 39
Registration date : 2013-11-05

Back to top Go down

splitting and rejigging pairs :/ Empty Re: splitting and rejigging pairs :/

Post by Amelia66 Sat Mar 22, 2014 6:42 pm

only thing i would say is will the two buns with health issues tolerate being unbonded and re bonded as some buns find it quite stressful. Also i would say there is not guarantee that the buns you are splitting will bond with the bunnies you want to put them with, and would it be fair to go through all that to put them back together after all?

Other than that i can understand your reasons for wanting to, its a tricky one.
Amelia66
Amelia66
Established Hopper
Established Hopper

Gender : Female
Number of posts : 1789
Age : 35
Location : Somerset
Registration date : 2011-02-17

Back to top Go down

splitting and rejigging pairs :/ Empty Re: splitting and rejigging pairs :/

Post by c.bolduan Sat Mar 22, 2014 8:15 pm

On the other hand you won't know without trying.
What is worse case scenario? What's the best?
What recourses are available?
Aiming for the best "possible" option is all we can do. That may include rethinking, rearranging, reflecting, and so on. But this is the process of development and bunnies are brilliant in developing! Very Happy Hugs Happy Dance 

c.bolduan
Established Hopper
Established Hopper

Gender : Female
Number of posts : 3124
Age : 58
Location : Gloucestershire
Registration date : 2013-07-23

Back to top Go down

splitting and rejigging pairs :/ Empty Re: splitting and rejigging pairs :/

Post by gentl Sun Mar 23, 2014 11:44 am

Oh dear! Good luck vibes!
gentl
gentl
Senior Hopper
Senior Hopper

Gender : Female
Number of posts : 6686
Age : 70
Location : Broken Arrow, Oklahoma, USA
Registration date : 2011-10-18

Back to top Go down

splitting and rejigging pairs :/ Empty Re: splitting and rejigging pairs :/

Post by Sixer Sun Mar 23, 2014 3:24 pm

Goodness, this is a tricky one. I can totally understand the logic between switching partners but actually doing it is not to be undertaken lightly.

How long have the pairs been together as they are now? Can I also ask what the health issues are that means Oakley and Istvan cannot be outside all the time?

Sixer
Sixer
Senior Hopper
Senior Hopper

Gender : Female
Number of posts : 5762
Age : 61
Location : Horwich, Bolton.
Registration date : 2008-07-25

Back to top Go down

splitting and rejigging pairs :/ Empty Re: splitting and rejigging pairs :/

Post by jolovesbunnies Sun Mar 23, 2014 3:40 pm

Good luck love, I kniw how difficult bonding can be.

Hugs
JO xx

jolovesbunnies
Elder Hopper
Elder Hopper

Gender : Female
Number of posts : 11948
Registration date : 2011-01-02

Back to top Go down

splitting and rejigging pairs :/ Empty Re: splitting and rejigging pairs :/

Post by FluffSlave Sun Mar 23, 2014 7:37 pm

This is a tricky one  Hmmm 

I can't really offer any advice but I can send hugs and vibes. I hope you can sort something out to work for everyone Hugs
FluffSlave
FluffSlave
Senior Hopper
Senior Hopper

Gender : Female
Number of posts : 7019
Location : Worcestershire, UK
Registration date : 2012-07-06

Back to top Go down

splitting and rejigging pairs :/ Empty Re: splitting and rejigging pairs :/

Post by Sponsored content


Sponsored content


Back to top Go down

Back to top

- Similar topics

 
Permissions in this forum:
You cannot reply to topics in this forum