Feeling guilty.

I got Mimi last summer, the plan was to bond her with my other two but it never happened. Anyway, after living in my upstairs in my spare bedroom for a while I managed to create a multi story bunny place for the three. Rory and Lola underneath and Mimi on top, the thing is I feel like she is lonely, I see her watching the other two playing. I keep trying to bond but she is terrified of Lola, the noises Mimi makes is heart breaking. What should I do? She is such a beautiful bun, so gentle and loves nose rubs. She is also putting on weight because she doesnt get out as much as she should. (Please dont judge me, I love my buns but am so busy ) I cant part with her but jason wont let me have four in the house.
I hate thinking she is so sad.

i'm sorry i have no bonding advice as i'm a total novice - but you are doing the very best you can for Mimi and giving her all the love you can. is there a chance your OH may consider another bunny in the future, as possible outdoor buns (if that's possible for you)

Kirsty&Lola wrote:i'm sorry i have no bonding advice as i'm a total novice - but you are doing the very best you can for Mimi and giving her all the love you can. is there a chance your OH may consider another bunny in the future, as possible outdoor buns (if that's possible for you)

We dont have much of a back yard but that is something I have thought about.
I have even thought about re homing her, it would break my heart but I want the best for her, anyway Jason wont have it. He loves her too, she really is the sweetest bun.
I need to make more effort in letting her out and spending more time with her. She is out and about now, She keeps trying to get to the other too, she desperatly wants to play and Rory would but Lola is a cow bag! She is binkying as we speak!

can you explain to him about how sad lonely buns get?

have you had a rescue attempt a trio bonding or was it you by yourself?

i don't know what to suggest i'm afraid.

Oh hun I know exactly how you feel as OH won't let me have another bun and Chance is alone. Whilst I am off work it is fine but when I have to go back I will worry. I feel so guilty. Is there anyway Mimi could bond with Rory too and perhaps have daily play time with him? I have done part day bonds before.

Catswhiskas wrote:Oh hun I know exactly how you feel as OH won't let me have another bun and Chance is alone. Whilst I am off work it is fine but when I have to go back I will worry. I feel so guilty. Is there anyway Mimi could bond with Rory too and perhaps have daily play time with him? I have done part day bonds before.

Rory loves her, I worry that Lola would fight with him if he saw Mimi on the side. Mimi loves him too its Lola she is scared of.
Ive not heard of this before, more info pls!